There’s one habit that, when people actually do it, changes everything about how they spend money.
It’s not complicated. It doesn’t require apps or spreadsheets or hours of your time. It’s so simple that most people skip it, thinking it can’t possibly make a difference. But really.. it does!
For one week, write down every single thing you spend money on.
It doesn’t need to be in a fancy tracking app, or in a spreadsheet with categories. Just write it down. On your phone, in a notebook, on the back of an envelope. It doesn’t matter.
Every coffee. Every petrol fill-up. Every grocery shop. Every impulse purchase at the supermarket checkout. Every streaming subscription. Every takeaway order. Everything.
Just write it down.
That’s it. That’s the whole exercise.
When you write down your spending, something shifts.
You become aware of it. Consciously aware. Not the vague awareness of “yeah, I spend money on coffee” but the specific awareness of “I spent $6.50 on a coffee on Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Saturday this week.”
When you see it written down, patterns jump out that you couldn’t see before.
You notice you’re buying coffee almost every day. You notice you grabbed takeaway three times this week without really planning to. You notice you spent $150 at the supermarket and can’t remember what half of it was.
Writing it down makes the invisible visible.
Once you can see your spending clearly, you can’t unsee it.
You don’t have to change anything. You don’t have to cut back. You don’t have to feel guilty or ashamed. You just notice.
And once you notice, your brain starts working on it without you forcing it to.
The next time you’re about to buy a coffee, you remember that you bought one yesterday. And the day before. You think about whether you actually want it, or whether you’re just operating on autopilot.
Sometimes you buy it anyway – and that’s fine – but now you’re actively choosing to, not just doing it without thinking.
The next time you’re at the supermarket, you’re more intentional about what you put in the trolley because you remember that you spent $150 last week and didn’t even use half of it.
You’re not restricting yourself – you’re just more aware.
That awareness is what changes everything.
When you’re aware of your spending, you make different choices. Not because you have to. Not because some budget told you to. But because you actually see what’s happening and you can decide if that’s what you want.
Some people realise they’re spending way more on subscriptions than they thought and cancel half of them. Some people realise they’re buying takeaway constantly because they’re too tired to cook, and they make a plan to have easier meals at home. Some people realise they’re impulse buying things they don’t need and just stop.
The thing that comes from this is that they realised this themselves. Not because I told them to, or because a budget forced them to. It is because they saw it with their own eyes and made their own decision.
That’s the power of awareness.
Pick one week. Write down everything you spend money on.
Don’t judge it. Don’t try to change it. Write it all down.
At the end of the week, look at the list. What surprises you? What patterns jump out?
You don’t have to do anything with this information. You don’t have to make changes or create a budget or commit to anything. This is about noticing, because once you notice, the rest follows naturally.
If one week of awareness changes something in you, keep going.
Some people do this exercise once a month as a check-in. Some people do it for a few weeks until the habit shifts. Some people do it whenever they feel like they’re losing control of their spending.
There’s no rule. Do it as much or as little as helps you.
The point is the awareness. Everything else flows from there.
If you want to go deeper than just tracking and actually create a spending plan that works for you, book a free call and we can chat about what’s next.
Or check out my coaching packages if you want ongoing support to transform your relationship with money.
Disclaimer: This information is general in nature and doesn’t take your personal circumstances into account. Always seek professional advice for your specific situation.